How to Discuss Threesome With Your Partner?

 

Are you interested in having a threesome with your partner? Is she interested in it too? If she is, how are you going to talk about it? They always say that you should have a discussion with your partner before having a threesome dating, but they never say how to do that without making your partner jealous and angry. You think it is all set after she agrees on board? That is too naive. It could raise lots of problem during your discussion. Here we are going to talk about how to discuss having a threesome with your partner.

As it may, do not mention threesome dating as way to spice up your relationship. You may notice that your relationship is getting dull, but this is not a good time to point it out. Let’s have a scenario simulation. “Honey, do you think our relationship is getting dull lately? How about we have a threesome?” “What? Did you just say that you are tired of our relationship and you want to have sex with another woman?” This is where this conversation will go. If you don’t know how to handle it well, this may be your last conversation. This is exactly that kind of situation you want to avoid. As a matter of fact, this can be totally avoided by saying it in the right way. You can ask her what she thinks of tinder threesome. If she feels okay with it, go deeper. Ask her how she is going to do it if you are to have a threesome. One thing goes to another, you are already talking about where and when this is going to happen.

Who are you going to have threesome with? This is one of the issues you are going to solve. How to ask her? “What do you think of Mary from the bar we went to that day? I think she is cute. Can we invite her over?” “You like her? So you think she is pretty, huh? How do you feel about sharing a bed with her? Just her!” You don’t want your conversation to end like that, right? Therefore, it would be a smarter move to leave the choice up to her. After all, if you purely want to have a threesome with your partner, it wouldn’t matter so much who the third person is, right?

Don’t rush it. You may be very looking forward to this threesome dating. However, this is also when you should be careful. “So when are we going to do it? How about I start searching for the third person? Maybe we can get an arrangement in the next week?” “What is the rush? It seems that you are so happy about it. Have you been planning on this for a long time?” It would seem to be true if you act like that you can’t wait any longer. Give her some time. Wait for her to bring it up. She may have agreed to this, but who doesn’t have a second thought. The harder you rush, the bigger chance that she might regret her decision and reject this proposal.